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Leadership · March 8, 2026 · 4 min read

Women at the head of the table

International Women's Day is the one day a year the conversation about women in leadership becomes unavoidable. The rest of the year, in most rooms, it remains optional.

By Harmony Vallejo

International Women's Day is the one day a year when the conversation about women in leadership becomes unavoidable. The rest of the year, in most rooms, it remains optional.

That gap is worth naming.

The women leading organizations today did not get there by waiting for the conversation to become convenient. They got there by doing the work, holding the standards, building the proof. The conversation matters less than the credential, and the credential is always the work itself.

What I notice, running a firm that has been led by women since its founding, is that the question of whether women can lead effectively has long since been answered. The question now is whether the structures around leadership are designed to let that effectiveness show up. Compensation. Access to capital. Promotion timelines. The informal networks where decisions actually get made.

Those are slower to change than the conversation. But they do change.

What I have found most useful

The most useful thing I have found, for myself and for the women I mentor, is to stay oriented toward what you can actually build. Not to fight the environment while simultaneously trying to lead in it. Not to spend energy on proving what the work will prove more efficiently. Lead. Build. Show.

The table is worth getting to. What you bring to it is the point.

Written by

Harmony Vallejo

Founder & CEO, Universal Events, Inc. Creator of The Alignment Code™.

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